Do you think he likes me?
Posted: January 19th, 2012 | Author: | Filed under: Q & A | Tags: likes, think | 3 Comments »ok so theres this guy i like and i want to know if he likes me, but ugh hes my foster brother… btw plz ont judge me because of that… its not like hes related to me or anything and rly hes not even related to my family by marriage either!!!
ANYWAY… so the most recent thing i thought that was suspicious was the fact that when i was in the bathroom stocking our shelves with toilet paper he was filling up a bucket (An old cement one) with water for the horse and our goat, well i dropped a roll and i apologized and he did something i didnt suspect… he wasnt rude!! haha well he just said that it was ok, in a sweet kind of manner i guess… idk i just thought that it was wierd!
So we went to get his new car… hes sixteen but he doesnt have his license yet. But i went in to the store to see if thy had a bathroom and they didnt so i came back out (DEEPLY disappointed!! haha!) and i was waiting for my foster mom mel and my foster dad dave to finish pumping the gas into his car but dave wasnt there, idk y i HAD to mention that anyway, cody (Foster brother) was just staring at me nodding his head so i had to look away (I could see out of the corner of my eye) but he wouldnt stop staring and so finally i couldnt stand it anymore and so i went into the van.
we went camping labor day weekend and my foster cousins jenna and makayla and her parents had come with us. well mel and dave and jenna and makaylas parents were out to the bathroom and jenna, cody, my sister kayla, makayla, and i were left. So cody said something stupid and i replied and then he replied to my reply by saying wanna fight wanna makeout. hes ALWAYS joking so i wasnt sure if that was a joke of his or something or if prehaps that he knew i liked him and was laughing at me, because mel and kenna went to go give dave and cody and scott, daves son, a pizza and well mel told dave OUT LOUD that someone told her i liked cody and scott and cody and jenna heard it and aftr she told me but…
Kayla (SIS) says cody stares at me all the time at dinner. She thinks he likes me. I dont know if this makes a diference but we were helping dave with building his house. Cody, i NEVER thought was a perfectionist until this time, but i was by a saw horse and wel i was leaning on it and cody was stacking big boards right in front of my to my left and well every time he would take a little time to make sure it was lined up ok and well he took at least 2 minutes for every board!
Once or twice i caught cody staring at me but only twice did i find him shaking his head cuz he thought i was a freak. Cody likes to point out my flaws but its not like he makes fun of me all the time. He and i ignore each other he doesnt say anything to me and i dont say anything to me. I laugh at his constant jokes and he makes fun of my sister (more like criticize her) but he does it less than he used to because i yelled at him one day and told him to leave her alone after that he didnt criticize her so much. he seems to accept me, but he doesnt accept my sister. three or four times in the summer he seemed to be WAITING for me, kayla, and mel when we came home on the couch in front of the front door! as soon as he saw me (I was always the first through the door for some reason!) he booked it. once or twice atually wanting something from mel. Cody actually came into my room when jenna like 2 years YOUNGER than me (Im 13 plz dont judge me for liking a guy three years older than me!!) asked him if he wanted to watch How I Met Your Mother he actually said yes! surprisingly! he stayed until like maybe 3/4 through the show halfway through? then he surprisingly stayed in the pool with me and my sister for like 10 minutes maybe less maybe more, when he absolutey hates kayla. Well he stayed in the pool for a game or two of marco polo (Blind version) after wards he got out.
does he like me? i rly want to know and plz plz plz dont judge me fro liking a guy 3 yrs older than me and for liking my foster brother!? I want sensible answers plz nothing inapropriate.
well first, i just took a huge dump and i cant get enough of how much it hurt.
Age is just a number and you guys aren’t related at all, you just happen to be living under the same roof, so there’s nothing wrong with that!
To be honest, I think he likes you but is in denial about it (maybe he think he’ll be judged?).
Maybe you should send him signals back.
Only way to find out is to ask him. Take him into a room where it’s only u too and be like I’ve noticed things about u that have changed and tell him what they are. Then be like u might think I’m crazy but I like u and wait for his response. That’s the best I can think of since I’m 13 myself but actually I haven’t dated anyone before.